longest relationship that didn't work?

[Brosh{TSU}]

My longest that didn't work lasted 9 months.

I just decided I wasn't happy. It broke her, but blah.

[DthStlkr13]

Originally Posted by popps lol But there should be athread for longest lasting relationships too

Well... the longest lasting relationship that WORKED would have to be the current one you are in.

My current relationship has lasted just over a year... like a year and 3 months or something. I'm about mid-way to my longest relationship ever...lol.

[GrendelKhan{TSU}]

Originally Posted by Zenophobe Well here... I'll revive it Longest relationship I had that didn't work out was 3 years... 2 years together and 1 by long distance in my girl's first year of grad school and I should have broken it up after the 1st year... the other 2 was me going through the motions being a complete coward and acting as if I still felt the same about her as she did with me finally she figured out what was going on and it broke her heart and she broke up with me and I felt completely horrible about it but I learned a valuable lesson... kill it when you know it's not going to bear fruit I can tell within the first conversation with a woman now whether there's any potential for a real relationship... most times, it isn't sadly enough so I've completely given up... especially after my most recent "relationship" which I may just go into on another post

some of the details are different but basically....ditto. heh

Originally Posted by DthStlkr13 My current relationship has lasted just over a year... like a year and 3 months or something.

hmm... almost same. hmm... 1yr + 2 monthish. crap, gotta check the exact date in case it comes up and I get in trouble for not remembering...
AGAIN. lol

[Team Steve{TSU}]

Im the AS in ASBO

But yeah im just generally im just lazy and dont really make the effot to try to show off, not my type of thing.

But i remember having a girl friend in secondary school, i dumped her for god knows what reason. Probably the additude towards life i guess >.>

10 years for me

gg pwned

[Flak]

7 years seems to be my limit.

[Strider{TSU}]

5 months is mine..

Should also be honest too though before the 10 years one (which I should have really bailed on sooner lol...) it was 6 months for some, 2 years for others... etc... Glad to see I'm not the only one. Kind of refreshing to know that life isn't as easy for everyone else as it may look on the outside sometimes, know what I mean? Any case, keep the faith. The right one is out there for all of us. But also making sure certain things in our own personal lives are "stable and taken care of" is the first step to finding that "right one."

Originally Posted by Zon{TSU} The right one is out there for all of us. But also making sure certain things in our own personal lives are "stable and taken care of" is the first step to finding that "right one."

"And why is that?" Most must wonder? Well that's because the "right one for you" (if you have similar objective standards) is going to have their things stable and taken care of too", right? ;-)

Yet one step further on that is "once the relationship begins" will it all stay that way? Can we keep it that way? Very difficult indeed for many people to say the least! But totally possible and doable with patience, effort and good communication! At least that's what I believe anyway. =)

[Strider{TSU}]

thats true..good advise(i took it as advise)