dating help

[Apathy]

srsly, online dating is NOT a good idea. I know from experience, one of which resulted in a meeting and a baby. Just don't do it. Wait until she's local or find a girl that is local.
And now, I have to finish getting ready for my IRL date (who'll prolly stand me up but at least I'll look freaking hawt while waiting LOL)

[Strider{TSU}]

Originally Posted by Apathy srsly, online dating is NOT a good idea. I know from experience, one of which resulted in a meeting and a baby. Just don't do it. Wait until she's local or find a girl that is local. And now, I have to finish getting ready for my IRL date (who'll prolly stand me up but at least I'll look freaking hawt while waiting LOL)

yeaaaaaaaaaaaa...no..i'm gonna stay with her..even if it kills me. she means wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy to much to me so thanks for ur advice..but..i dont think ill be useing it :\ srry

[Apathy]

Originally Posted by Strider4728 yeaaaaaaaaaaaa...no..i'm gonna stay with her..even if it kills me. she means wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy to much to me so thanks for ur advice..but..i dont think ill be useing it : srry

GL to ya then. It's nice to see a lil sometimes

[Strider{TSU}]

Originally Posted by Apathy GL to ya then. It's nice to see a lil sometimes

thank you..ill probably be needing it

[GrendelKhan{TSU}]

Originally Posted by Strider4728 ..but where..and how do i start to trust her..more?

be like Nike. you just do it.

hell you BE it. its not a question after that. its just a state of being.

Originally Posted by RisingFury By not looking for any possible holes in her stories, by believing what she tells you and by knowing that she won't do anything stupid cos she loves you. That'd be a great start.

well said.

Originally Posted by Strider4728 although a great idea...its easyer said then done... :

that's what gives it meaning when you DO IT.

honestly... and plz don't take this the wrong way...
sounds like you both have some issues that need to be resolved before you can really explore relationships to the depth needed....which would be hard enough in person much less online.

she sounds depressed....to a point where any online relationship may be therapeutic in a venting way.. .but not in "relationship will be solve her problems" way. and if you are that jealous AND have such fundamental trust issues... then you really need a deep introspective look before taking on someone else's issues. jealousy and distrust and the word love aren't exactly supposed to be in the same sentence.

I'm not saying you don't care or love her... just that there are many many variables her that need resolving BEFORE you can honestly go down a road of truly "being together". THAT's the hard part. deciding "how" to trust someone you love isn't supposed to be.

anyway you look at this.... proceed with caution and best of luck to you no matter how you proceed.

[Strider{TSU}]

Originally Posted by GrendelKhan{TSU} be like Nike. you just do it. hell you BE it. its not a question after that. its just a state of being. well said. that's what gives it meaning when you DO IT. honestly... and plz don't take this the wrong way... sounds like you both have some issues that need to be resolved before you can really explore relationships to the depth needed....which would be hard enough in person much less online. she sounds depressed....to a point where any online relationship may be therapeutic in a venting way.. .but not in "relationship will be solve her problems" way. and if you are that jealous AND have such fundamental trust issues... then you really need a deep introspective look before taking on someone else's issues. jealousy and distrust and the word love aren't exactly supposed to be in the same sentence. I'm not saying you don't care or love her... just that there are many many variables her that need resolving BEFORE you can honestly go down a road of truly "being together". THAT's the hard part. deciding "how" to trust someone you love isn't supposed to be. anyway you look at this.... proceed with caution and best of luck to you no matter how you proceed.

yea...so should i take a break?...or just work out my problems..while im with her.and ignore hers? ahh so confused..ok so im gonna work out my problems..earn her trust..i do trust her alot..but thats not enough. i need to trust her fully and completly..and then..i gota work out my jealousy..which will be more hard then the trusting. and at the same time..dont hurt her or make her jealous [(shes more jealous then me but i show mine and it affects me more)]i think i got it..if not..then..let me know..thanks GK