Originally Posted by Strider4728  ..but where..and how do i start to trust her..more? |
be like Nike. you just do it.
hell you BE it. its not a question after that. its just a state of being.
Originally Posted by RisingFury By not looking for any possible holes in her stories, by believing what she tells you and by knowing that she won't do anything stupid cos she loves you.
That'd be a great start. |
well said.
Originally Posted by Strider4728 although a great idea...its easyer said then done... : |
that's what gives it meaning when you DO IT.
honestly... and plz don't take this the wrong way...
sounds like you both have some issues that need to be resolved before you can really explore relationships to the depth needed....which would be hard enough in person much less online.
she sounds depressed....to a point where any online relationship may be therapeutic in a venting way.. .but not in "relationship will be solve her problems" way. and if you are that jealous AND have such fundamental trust issues... then you really need a deep introspective look before taking on someone else's issues. jealousy and distrust and the word love aren't exactly supposed to be in the same sentence.
I'm not saying you don't care or love her... just that there are many many variables her that need resolving BEFORE you can honestly go down a road of truly "being together". THAT's the hard part. deciding "how" to trust someone you love isn't supposed to be.
anyway you look at this.... proceed with caution and best of luck to you no matter how you proceed.